Mystery

Last night watched the movie 'Ek Villain'. Why and How one becomes a loser ? Is there anything we can do to change the psychology of a 'Villain'?

 I think every human has that 'killer instinct' hidden in oneself.It depends on the environmental factors and the people around to bring out that evil or bring out the best in you. In the movie ,the role played by Hritesh Deshmukh tells us that a loser/frustrated personality kills the outside world to become a hero in the family.Alternatively there might be some sick people ( who have this strange complex ) who opt for defaming their own family to become a hero for the outside world.

In the latter case, the family can opt for helping the patient;but that can only be done if the patient agrees to seek medical help and help from the well wishers and do not take it on his ego. This might be difficult because a loser if agrees to seek help from anybody ,his mindset would make him feel that he is again not a hero.
Or the family can opt to escape/leave such an environment. This looks a more suitable option as the instincts of the villain tend to calm down only when the family gets defamed and only when the family itself becomes a villain( i.e. members adopt wrong and bad words/gestures/thoughts/deeds etc.)

I chose the option to escape because I could neither tolerate myself being defamed nor could I compromise on my principles and values (that my parents ,family and teachers had worked upon hard over the years) to calm down my instincts (that were provoked intentionally).I can't and never want to become a villain. This option has worked for me till now.

But,in life one strategy that works at one time for one person not necessarily may work for everyone. Feel free to discuss and share your views/experiences and thoughts here.

HOAX

Hello Friends !

What's right and what's wrong !! What's good and what's bad !!! are subjective terms,yet there are certain characteristics and traits that make a human a human and that that are absolute good and absolute bad.

The following are just few lines that may help in identifying the good and the bad.

When a "good " thing stays with a "bad" one.The bad will try to do either of the two options - First , try to convert the good into bad .Second, to get rid of the good any how.The good also will have 2 options. First ,to convert the bad into good .Second, to get rid of it anyhow. :P
But the reason for choosing the second option is different in both the cases.And that speaks all.Here is an example to make it clear.

I feel that the good will keep standing unaffected n strong and the bad will everytime try to escape or shy away from facing it. And even further, to prove this point in its favour ,the bad will start doing things that will compell the good to somehow appear to be escaping facing the bad. ( compell only bcoz the good will never fall down below a certain level bcoz it is gud ). And the good will not face the bad ... not face it .. not bcoz gud is avoiding .. but bcoz bad is not in a frame to understand n bcoz bad is being bad.

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Will It Ever Change ?

She kept reminding that she was being harassed n humiliated repeatedly,
She shared her intuitions and what She feared in future,
She could explain the reasons for all her thoughts and give logic for everything she believed,
She was open to discussion ,feedback and open to change.
But they kept suppressing her, they kept doubting her intelligence,
it seemed they never believed her as they never showed that they believed her,
all they wanted was that she should understand the system, the society and the environment ,
they wanted her to survive the same way most of them did.
She could understand their concern too.
But She ...She is Made Different...
Unfortunately, 'They' are her own people and I am 'She'.

The above picture has been taken from the internet.