Perception

                                                         

Madhulika :What keeps you going ?
My soul :I have always taken it as a Challenge, challenge to self, have tried gathering strength and open the gates of communication at places where they had been closed in the past.
Madhulika :What have you gained ?
My soul :I enjoy the achievement and the pride of doing something that everyone thought could never be done.
Madhulika :Do you gain 100% success ?
My soul : Yes ,because ultimately everybody is a human and all have feelings. Except , when the gates could never be opened because it was perceived that my success was their failure. :D

Individual Goals Taking Over

I often wonder if I (being idle all the time,having all the time to think of the world and about everyone I know and i have always believed I can do Anything and Everything) am also unable to do anything about it ,So how should this world be improved?

 Now plz frds dun start giving suggestions like ' u can't change the ppl n all ' . Will you like your kids to grow up with the mentality that exploiting others is absolutely fine unless caught ? Will you want your children to be insensitive about the feelings of their blood relations,teachers ,friends ,colleagues and neighbors ? Or will you teach your kids to be SELFISH ? I think some parents who have felt the inconvenience in their lives by being ethical and morally good ,don’t want their kids to go through the same.So ,they perhaps try to build them strong. But over generations the mentality that will be considered normal will actually be a destructive one. A matter of big concern for humanity.

One can't change the existing but one can definitely communicate to the upcoming generation what is right and what not . On this too some of u might say ' There is nothing like rght or wrong'. Of course claiming others' stuff as your own is wrong,killing is wrong and so many such things are wrong Because they are INHUMAN. If a person can't think ( having no time I consider is also no excuse as one always has time for kids) or keeps ignoring then I think it is a disrespect to the people(including our ancestors) who have taken EXTRA pains throughout their lives to maintain a CLASS in their behavior.

Some people have even questioned me “ Why don’t you do anything about it ?”

‘Is my answer to this question the same as theirs ? ‘,is the question I have in my mind now.

But if this is the case then I should have seen or atleast felt their concern/efforts. It seems to be that the ones questioning me have ignored and accepted the things as they are/will be OR either they have given up.

Yes it requires a Great amount of strength discussing, planning and executing things that is not everybody or anybody’s cup of tea.

SO does it mean that NOTHING can be done and things will be as they are and worsen with time? So have we humans, the most intelligent species on this planet , given up ?

 HUMAN ,the most intelligent species Dies as being the Most Foolish on Earth.

Mystery

Last night watched the movie 'Ek Villain'. Why and How one becomes a loser ? Is there anything we can do to change the psychology of a 'Villain'?

 I think every human has that 'killer instinct' hidden in oneself.It depends on the environmental factors and the people around to bring out that evil or bring out the best in you. In the movie ,the role played by Hritesh Deshmukh tells us that a loser/frustrated personality kills the outside world to become a hero in the family.Alternatively there might be some sick people ( who have this strange complex ) who opt for defaming their own family to become a hero for the outside world.

In the latter case, the family can opt for helping the patient;but that can only be done if the patient agrees to seek medical help and help from the well wishers and do not take it on his ego. This might be difficult because a loser if agrees to seek help from anybody ,his mindset would make him feel that he is again not a hero.
Or the family can opt to escape/leave such an environment. This looks a more suitable option as the instincts of the villain tend to calm down only when the family gets defamed and only when the family itself becomes a villain( i.e. members adopt wrong and bad words/gestures/thoughts/deeds etc.)

I chose the option to escape because I could neither tolerate myself being defamed nor could I compromise on my principles and values (that my parents ,family and teachers had worked upon hard over the years) to calm down my instincts (that were provoked intentionally).I can't and never want to become a villain. This option has worked for me till now.

But,in life one strategy that works at one time for one person not necessarily may work for everyone. Feel free to discuss and share your views/experiences and thoughts here.