Last night watched the movie 'Ek Villain'. Why and How one becomes a loser ? Is there anything we can do to change the psychology of a 'Villain'?
I think every human has that 'killer instinct' hidden in oneself.It depends on the environmental factors and the people around to bring out that evil or bring out the best in you. In the movie ,the role played by Hritesh Deshmukh tells us that a loser/frustrated personality kills the outside world to become a hero in the family.Alternatively there might be some sick people ( who have this strange complex ) who opt for defaming their own family to become a hero for the outside world.
In the latter case, the family can opt for helping the patient;but that can only be done if the patient agrees to seek medical help and help from the well wishers and do not take it on his ego. This might be difficult because a loser if agrees to seek help from anybody ,his mindset would make him feel that he is again not a hero.
Or the family can opt to escape/leave such an environment. This looks a more suitable option as the instincts of the villain tend to calm down only when the family gets defamed and only when the family itself becomes a villain( i.e. members adopt wrong and bad words/gestures/thoughts/deeds etc.)
I chose the option to escape because I could neither tolerate myself being defamed nor could I compromise on my principles and values (that my parents ,family and teachers had worked upon hard over the years) to calm down my instincts (that were provoked intentionally).I can't and never want to become a villain. This option has worked for me till now.
But,in life one strategy that works at one time for one person not necessarily may work for everyone. Feel free to discuss and share your views/experiences and thoughts here.
I think every human has that 'killer instinct' hidden in oneself.It depends on the environmental factors and the people around to bring out that evil or bring out the best in you. In the movie ,the role played by Hritesh Deshmukh tells us that a loser/frustrated personality kills the outside world to become a hero in the family.Alternatively there might be some sick people ( who have this strange complex ) who opt for defaming their own family to become a hero for the outside world.
In the latter case, the family can opt for helping the patient;but that can only be done if the patient agrees to seek medical help and help from the well wishers and do not take it on his ego. This might be difficult because a loser if agrees to seek help from anybody ,his mindset would make him feel that he is again not a hero.
Or the family can opt to escape/leave such an environment. This looks a more suitable option as the instincts of the villain tend to calm down only when the family gets defamed and only when the family itself becomes a villain( i.e. members adopt wrong and bad words/gestures/thoughts/deeds etc.)
I chose the option to escape because I could neither tolerate myself being defamed nor could I compromise on my principles and values (that my parents ,family and teachers had worked upon hard over the years) to calm down my instincts (that were provoked intentionally).I can't and never want to become a villain. This option has worked for me till now.
But,in life one strategy that works at one time for one person not necessarily may work for everyone. Feel free to discuss and share your views/experiences and thoughts here.
