SET TO FACE THE WORLD...

This post was not created with the intension of publishing.I had commented on my friend's blog for she invited views on the topic "Eve -teasing, Molestation and Harassment".She wrote so effectively that I got filled with anger and expressed my views with this...Infact ,the impact was so much that I was discussing this topic whole day.

COMMENT TO MY FRIEND ON HER SUCCESS POST :

A very good attempt dear...but to how many boys it'll reach? Those who'll hv access to such articles are less likely to be of the 'cheap ' catergory....I think the root cause of such misbehavior lies in the upbringing manner...A child gains most of the habbits and thoughts in his young stages from:-
1).His family
2).His environment like,school,colony,village,town,whereever he goes..etc.
3).His friends or the company in which he gets.

It all lies in the mindset of a male.Most of us will agree that eve-teasing and molestation have been 99% times initiated by males from lower backgrounds.

From my experience I can conclude that there are many towns in India where the typical male-female biasness persists;where females hv to be in 'ghoonghat' all the time;where the FREEDOM of a WOMAN has been curbed;where education is there but literacy is not;where the less educated mothers later in their lives forget to teach their sons the right values;where society only claims to hv been progressing wt time but ,from inside, the mentality remains orthodox....In such areas men make fun of any women they come across and boast it amongst their peers...Elderly men drink and misbehave and nobody is present to stop them...A woman has no option but to just shut her mouth because she has been taught by her OWN elders that men are such by nature (What an excuse to hide ones' son's mistakes !!!!!!! DISGUSTING) ...She lives her life sulking and assuming it to be her destiny.....

In the cities ,on the other hand, women are becoming smarter and are ready to raise their voices against such crimes...but people in cities are not bothered for strangers...so even in a public place a girl is actually ALONE....Crime from the North region of our nation is spreading to the South ....

I think it'll take generations for men to understand what a DISGRACE they bring to their OWNSELVES and also to the Nation.

I want to share a bit of information with all.The Delhi Police has a separate branch for the women named as CRIME AGAINST WOMEN CELL. This body protects women and also provides solutions to their problems.They conduct work-shops from time to time to train women so that they are able to fight tough situations.Anybody who needs their help can get their helpline no. from their website.

ONLY and ONLY if women face BOLDLY and INTELLIGENTLY ,will this problem end.By this ,I don't mean that we have to react on every experience...But I mean that we have to be smart enough NOT TO GIVE ANYBODY ANY CHANCE to tease us or take advantage of us...

For the post I must say, "RACHANA great going, it requires courage to speak for all"...and PRIYANKA," very well done."

Tuesday, December 15, 2009



Few very important points that were somewhere in me and I wanted to mention but could not ,my friend has very beautifully written and replied me in the following manner....


Rachana Shakyawar said...
@ Madhulika

Very much I agree, Madhu!
And it’s sad that this message can’t go long way…perhaps I only wish it should as it is the call of the day.

The upbringing has to be from the family absolutely. The family must teach the child the IMPORTANCE OF WOMAN in our life and UNCONDITIONAL RESPECT they deserve. The biased thought hampers so much throughout the generations. And the core need to BASIC ETIQUETTES is ignored.

But it’s not just the lower background people only involved in such acts. In fact, the rich brats are also equally to be blamed. Don’t you remember every year we often hear from different parts of the country how rich father’s young boys in the New Year party misbehave with the girls!

I liked the way you compared the small towns and city people with apt correct info that presents the state of their minds due to strange prejudices followed.

Good you have mentioned about the CRIME AGAINST WOMEN CELL, this shall help many in their odd times. Such cell should be extended to each and very corners of the city throughout the country.

Very much we need to act intelligently bold and catch hold tight those collars who take a chance of our innocence!

Thank you so much for your introspection of the post and presenting your personal strong thoughts and enlightening this post and our views.


Keep the spark ALive..

Tuesday, December 15, 2009




So, now after so much of discussion and knowing about others' stories,I finally conclude that


"Not all men are the same,

But all women long for a name;

The city,town or village doesn't matter,

But the upbringing can be responsible for a life to be shattered;

RESPECT the fairer sex you men ,

Why are you scared of letting HER go ahead?;

Watch out !!! for the day has come ,

When GOD's most beautiful creation is all set to make you dumb ."

The above image of Lt. Jackie Tonawanda,

popularly known as ' FEMALE ALI ',

has been taken from www.nydailynews.com/sports/more_sports/2009/0.